"Come what may, and love it!......Yet in spite of discouragement and adversity, those who are happiest seem to have a way of learning from difficult times, becoming stronger, wiser, and happier as a result." ~ Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin

December 29, 2009

In case you were wondering.

Well, I have no pictures because I didn't bring the cord to my camera to Utah, sorry! My boys have been sick. Fever, runny noses, coughs and extra snugly (I don't mind that part). I should feel lucky that Asher made it 11 months without a fever. We took them to the Doctor yesterday. Dr. Marsden. He was Noah's pediatrician when we lived here and I absolutely LOVE him. I mean LOVE him! He's very thorough and detailed, very nice, funny, and always remembers us. While we were there finding out that Noah had an ear infection and Asher had a viral infection in his throat (which resulted in less eating, more crying, and well... you get the picture), I told him I wanted his opinion about Asher. I told him everything. The nerve injury, the throwing up, the poor weight gain, the gaging...everything. Then he told us what he would do. Lets just say I asked if he would write it all down. My first thought was WHY didn't the doctors we have been seeing do all these things. Then questions. There was a test he thought might be good for Asher called a sweat test. I told Dr. Marsden that he does sweat a lot. He said it doesn't really have much to do with sweating. He said it was to test for cystic fibrosis. Cystic fibrosis? I knew exactly what this was because of my physical therapy training. I have never treated anyone with this illness but knew a person with it. My heart started beating quickly, I think timed actually stood still, and I felt sick. My feelings must have spread quickly to my face because the next words out of Dr. Marsden's mouth were, "I don't want to scare you. The chances are very slim but we want to rule everything out." Our insurance is not good in Utah so we decided to wait until we get home to get the test done. Upon leaving the office my mind and heart went to prayer. I reflected on this past year with all it's doctors appointments, worrying, wondering and tears. Then came the good part...the eternal perspective, remembering my faith, remembering all the blessings. I was comforted and knew that whatever happened I could handle it. Whatever happened would be what Heavenly Father wanted for us. I have to say that the old me might have curled up in bed and cried for a while. Not yesterday, I admit that I shed a few tears but I feel like the faith that I have gained has prepared me (in a way) for whatever lies ahead. I'm not saying it will be easy, just easier.

I need thee every hour, Most gracious Lord.
No tender voice like thine can peace afford.
I need thee , oh, I need thee; Every hour I need thee!
Oh, bless me now my Savior; I come to thee!

-I Need Thee Every Hour (pg.98 LDS Hymnal)

5 comments:

The Papa's said...

Have I ever told you that you are AMAZING!!! Such an example of how we ALL should live. I think you are a fighter & that your boys...ALL of them ;) are SO truly lucky to have you in their life. I also want you to know that I am thankful that you are my sister (in law, but to me there really is NO difference). Thank you for being such a great example!!! Love ya' & I really wish that you lived closer! :)

Matt and Anna Hone said...

I have to agree you are a great example to me as well. I love reading your blog. You make me stronger. Just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in our prayers. I will keep checking your blog to see how things are going. I miss you and love you tons. Love ya Anna

stef j. said...

oh gosh erin... you carry your burdens well. i think i would have broken into a few million pieces and would still be picking them back up when easter rolled around.

i ditto the above comments... thanks for your example.

i'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

carrie said...

I love you Erin! I wish I would have known earlier that you were in St. George, I would have paid you a visit for sure! We were only there the 26, 27, and left in the afternoon on the 28th, so sad I didn't get to see you guys!

Meghan said...

You amaze me. So positive all the time. Really, the Lord has so many blessings in store for you! Your boys are so precious, and I can tell they are so loved by you! You are such a good mommy!